Hypo help needed
Friday, April 30th, 2004Good Morning,
Ok the situation you describe is one… many (sic. most in my opinion) diabetics have encountered in their experience, provided they have any of course…
How long has he had diabetes? It SOUNDS like he’s a relative beginner… but there could be lots of different issues going on. First and last, you will be able to ~reach~ him; you are his lover, his wife, the mother of his children. How are you approaching the conversations? And what does he say, assuming he doesn’t clam-up that is…? You love him.. (as many of you ladies do) despite the fact we can be a royal P.I.T.A. often….
As for killing himself, it is a possibility, but he could be run over by an Acme truck in the parking lot too… you cannot focus on the bad.
Being low, is a reality of this disease period. Those of us who LIVE with it, know that ~control~ is… a kind illusion; mostly for the benefit of ~spectators~ to/of the disease. Sure, you, I… we all do our best, with ourselves and those we love who are the diabetics respectively. Bottom line, you do the best you can… Lows are the direct and sole result of the reality that insulin, injected or pumped in ANY form is 100% guess work. Educated guesses at times, but the reality; our best guesses based on the best information & patterns we can detect. The reason we go low is because we misread or misfactored something.
Now… sure he could be bottoming out in foreign cities when you are not around. Again, you cannot think that way and remain sane! I have lots of different thoughts, but lets see how you flesh this situation out a bit more. My initial impression is that somebody sold him on the IDIOTIC DCCT (Diabetes Complications & Control Trials) so called “necessity” and failed to warn him (as they ALL do) of the serious risks of too much micro-management…
It’s damend spooky to have someone going so low that the paramedics are needed. Other members may disagree with me on this point, however MY basic rule of thumb is that you use the glutose gel if you cannot wake him. Pop the top off, squeeze it between his cheek and gum, SLOWLY… then gently massage the cheek. It takes a few minutes but is far less terrifying and dramatic than going straight to the red lights and siren folks.
The watch you describe is an expensive toy, but it will do nothing about the cause(s) of the lows which is the source of your terror.
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