Maddie Newly diagnosed (was just newly diagnosed)
Thursday, November 11th, 2004Good Morning Stephanie,
The path you are on, is one we all share… in some way or other. It is one, we would gladly relieve you of, if we were able. There is nothing more precious than the innocence and enegry of a child. The disease we share with you and her… is a horrible burden. One which YOU must remember is merely ONE SMALL PART… of who she is and what she will become. True she is a diabetic… but she is also a cutie-pie, a mathmatecian, someday a mommy person perhaps, and a thousand other things too all at the same time! Diabetes is an important part of who Maddie is, but surely it is not all.
This disease is like a sleepy dragon of fairytales read long ago. It is a dangerous beast, sleeping soundly… and when it awakens from its quiet slumber, it will seek ~flight~ from its cave and will try and destroy all that it is able like those storybook dragons… it has many methods. It must be respected at all costs. When we forget to respect it… “forget” this or that, it will “teach us” in a manner making Hiroshima look like a small flame.
Ominous isn’t it?
Remember to laugh at it as well. Forget this and diabetes can teach you dispair. There are lots of us here (Everybody wave) who have been and ARE where you are now. Take hope that, even though we are all strangers to you and in many ways to each other… as the phrase goes “… we have your back…”
We share the ~secret handshake~which makes us unique (holding up scarred fingertips from the daily tests). This makes us “blood” and closer to her in some ways than you, her mother. You will care for her, as her mother. In time, she will learn to care for herself… Between then and now, share with us your journey… and we’ll try and share our laughter and our arms.
Hold tight dear lady… and smile (Who knows it might become a habit <wg
Jeff (diagnosed pretty close to the age your daughter is now, a loooong time ago (: ?)