You fed her what????

I know in the past we’ve passed around oddball things that people
will mention to us about misconceptions about what people with
diabetes can eat, and how ones with diabetes should live their lives.
Recently I’ve been drumming up donations for the JDRF walk-a-thon
this fall, and have been going at it pretty aggressively. Some
people ask questions, the usual, “so she can’t eat any sugar, she
must be overweight, blah blah blah.” One woman I gingerly tried to
explain that while I don’t feed my daughter snickers bars and
slushees, I do quite often give her a dixie cup size serving of ice
cream each night before bed. Before I could explain the benefits of
this, I got a look that could have killed. I thought this woman was
going to call child protective services on me.
I had to laugh at how much people don’t know and obviously don’t
understand. I’m sure the rest of you have come up against this in
your experiences.

9 Responses to “You fed her what????”

  1. Jackson Inge Says:

    Stephanie,

    I had a good one recently. A friend of mine who is very skinny commented that she needs to be careful because diabetes runs on both sides of her family. A guy we were talking with said that all she needed to do is keep her weight down. I totally came unglued. He said that his dad is a doctor and he *knows* about this. I told him that I have been diabetic longet than he has been alive and proceeded to point out the finer differences between T1 & T2, and the fact that even though weight can be a contributing factor in T2, it is not a guarantee. I also pointed out that he didn’t bother to find out which type runs in her family, so his comment was stupid, insensitive, and just plain rude. And my friend backed me up on it! Grrrr! Usually I just brush it off, but it got the better of me that day. I think he was trying to show off for my friend. Obviously, *that* didn’t work.

    Stacy
    Stephanie <thiswomansworld2003@…

    I know in the past we’ve passed around oddball things that people
    will mention to us about misconceptions about what people with
    diabetes can eat, and how ones with diabetes should live their lives.
    Recently I’ve been drumming up donations for the JDRF walk-a-thon
    this fall, and have been going at it pretty aggressively. Some
    people ask questions, the usual, “so she can’t eat any sugar, she
    must be overweight, blah blah blah.” One woman I gingerly tried to
    explain that while I don’t feed my daughter snickers bars and

    slushees, I do quite often give her a dixie cup size serving of ice
    cream each night before bed. Before I could explain the benefits of
    this, I got a look that could have killed. I thought this woman was
    going to call child protective services on me.
    I had to laugh at how much people don’t know and obviously don’t
    understand. I’m sure the rest of you have come up against this in
    your experiences.

  2. collier500 Says:

    School aides have walked up to my daughter and told her not to eat something I packed for her because it had “sugar ” in it, ( i.e yogurt, pudding and fruit snacks)

    Thankfully the principal is a mom of a type 1 and immediately called a meeting to “educate” the staff.

    Hugs, Rhonda

  3. Jackson Inge Says:

    Howard,

    I have been on Lantus since May 2002. My only issues with it are the fact that it sometimes stings (very badly) while it is being injected and I was having a hard time with the dosing when I took it at bedtime. My endo switched me to Lantus in the AM & NPH at bedtime. This seems to be working well. I’m in better control than ever before. Were you using a pen version? I am using the syringe & vial setup. I don’t know if that would make any difference.

    Stacy
    Howard Glansfield <HJGlansfield@…

    Sorry Stacy, I think it was me who was confused.
    How are you on Lantus? It didn’t suit me,in fact it made me ill and I
    was only on it for four weeks before my consultant hastily took me off
    it.My blood sugars were fine,(when the pen worked!) but I had terrible
    debility which lasted even after I came off Lantus, I was ,which was
    totally alien for me, aggressive,I felt ill and nauseaous.
    Howard

  4. Tom Kacy Says:

    Stacy,
    I’ve never heard the 10 servings of carb rule/guideline. Since I’ve
    started going to an endo earlier this year, I’ve met with the dietician a
    couple of times. She told me to avoid fats. I went to a couple of classes
    given by MiniMed (pump company) and the nurse who runs those also stressed
    avoiding fats. So, since March or so I have been careful in my food
    choices. Of course I look at carbs, but I also check the fat content. I
    have pretty much completely cut out fast food from my diet. I used to get
    fast food for lunch every day at work! Since March, I’ve lost a little
    more than 40 pounds. When I go to see the np/cde, first someone else will
    weigh me, take my BP, take a BG reading before I meet with the nurse. A
    couple of times she’s taken me back out to the scale to weigh me herself
    because she couldn’t believe the numbers. She keeps asking me if I’m
    aggressively trying to lose weight, but I’m not doing anything too much out
    of the ordinary. The change in diet is the major factor. And, it’s not

    like I’m starving myself either. Probably on a normal day I eat 150-200
    grams of carbs. If I don’t have anything to bring for lunch, I get a salad
    with either a fat free dressing or oil & vinegar. On salad days my carb
    count is a lot less.
    Like you, I’ve also done minimal exercise. I try to take a walk on the
    weekend, an hour or so both days if I can. During the week, I’m usually
    too busy at work and it’s already dark when I get home. Between my last
    visit in June and my visit on Tuesday, I only lost a couple of pounds
    because I hadn’t been walking even on the weekends; it was just too
    hot/humid. This week my 10 year old niece was staying with me, and I
    walked like crazy. My BG readings have been so great this week, I’m
    thinking of telling my sister I want to adopt my niece.
    Soooo, I am definitely above the 10 servings of carbs per day and I’m still
    able to lose weight. I really think that cutting out fat/fast food is
    what’s helping me most.

    Liz

  5. Tom Kacy Says:

    Stacy,
    Before I started the pump, I was put on Lantus, taking one shot at
    night. I had to keep lowering the dose because I was waking up low every
    morning and would end up being high by dinner time. My CDE split my dose
    in half, and I was taking equal amounts in the morning and at night and
    that worked much better. There’s no way I would have gone back to NPH,
    especially at night. That used to give me killer lows in the
    morning. Almost literally killer - I’d wake up having seizures.

    Liz

  6. Tom Kacy Says:

    Lori,
    Was her son using an insulin pump? Right now I have 3-4 unopened of vials
    of Humalog in my fridge, but Humalog is the only insulin I use. No
    long-acting stuff. I use anywhere from 35-45 units a day (depending on how
    many carbs I’ve had) and I get three vials a month. Two would be enough
    but I like having an extra just in case. It also means I don’t have to
    rush out for a refill right away, and after getting my prescription
    refilled a few times I can skip getting it for a month, since I’ve got extra.
    Good luck with your new job!

    Liz

  7. collier500 Says:

    15 is the norm, but some people use whatever is equal to 1 unit of insulin as their serving size.

    10, 12, 15 etc.

    Hugs, Rhonda

  8. Mary Kinney Says:

    Good news about the job, I hope you enjoy it.
    I think the pen was only available in the UK and Germany ,I am not sure
    how widespread it is now but there have been huge problems with it.The
    needle is a push fit whereas others are a screwed on and the delivery
    of insulin was by battery so there was no physical ‘feel’when injecting.
    I am on three injections a day of Novo Human Actrapid (which, in pen
    cartridge form ,is being withdrawn in this Country in December) and one
    of Human Insulatard.
    I have a bad reaction to analogue insulin so I am having to change to
    Humulin S,but I hear that that is being withdrawn too.Actrapid will be
    available in phial form but I don’t want to have to go back to
    syringes .I may have no choice!
    Howard

  9. Jackson Inge Says:

    Liz,

    That is fantastic! I try to avoid fats, too, as they tend to push my sugars up. For my regimen, 10 servigs is 150g. I think for me it was just that I needed to pay more attention to *what* I eat and not just eat because the food is there. I used to snack way too much. Sure, my sugars would be OK because I would take insulin for what I ate, but my body wasn’t using the food, just storing it. I just decided to make a change and start eating better and more appropriate volumes for what I do in a day. It is helping and my endo is very happy.

    Stacy
    Elizabeth Blake <Poodlebone@…

    Stacy,
    I’ve never heard the 10 servings of carb rule/guideline. Since I’ve
    started going to an endo earlier this year, I’ve met with the dietician a
    couple of times. She told me to avoid fats. I went to a couple of classes
    given by MiniMed (pump company) and the nurse who runs those also stressed
    avoiding fats. So, since March or so I have been careful in my food
    choices. Of course I look at carbs, but I also check the fat content. I
    have pretty much completely cut out fast food from my diet. I used to get

    fast food for lunch every day at work! Since March, I’ve lost a little
    more than 40 pounds. When I go to see the np/cde, first someone else will
    weigh me, take my BP, take a BG reading before I meet with the nurse. A
    couple of times she’s taken me back out to the scale to weigh me herself
    because she couldn’t believe the numbers. She keeps asking me if I’m
    aggressively trying to lose weight, but I’m not doing anything too much out
    of the ordinary. The change in diet is the major factor. And, it’s not
    like I’m starving myself either. Probably on a normal day I eat 150-200
    grams of carbs. If I don’t have anything to bring for lunch, I get a salad
    with either a fat free dressing or oil & vinegar. On salad days my carb
    count is a lot less.
    Like you, I’ve also done minimal exercise. I try to take a walk on the
    weekend, an hour or so both days if I can. During the week, I’m usually
    too busy at work and it’s already dark when I get home. Between my last
    visit in June and my visit on Tuesday, I only lost a couple of pounds
    because I hadn’t been walking even on the weekends; it was just too
    hot/humid. This week my 10 year old niece was staying with me, and I
    walked like crazy. My BG readings have been so great this week, I’m
    thinking of telling my sister I want to adopt my niece.
    Soooo, I am definitely above the 10 servings of carbs per day and I’m still
    able to lose weight. I really think that cutting out fat/fast food is
    what’s helping me most.

    Liz

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